Four Foundations for Creating a Healthy Family (Beverly Buncher)
Beverly Buncher’s Four Foundations for Creating a Healthy Family are based on the idea that one person can make a positive difference in the life of his or her family. These same principles apply to families needing small tweaks as well as to families facing huge challenges. Bev will discuss how you can make your life and family experience better from the inside out. By learning about the Four Foundations©, you will find yourself becoming a pivotal part of the solution. It’s not about taking over another person’s responsibilities, Bev says, but about finding freedom in taking on your own responsibilities in a new, more enlightened way. Join us to learn how you can experience increasing levels of peace and purpose in your life and family.
About Beverly Buncher
“Coach Bev,” author of the forthcoming book The Four Foundations of Family Recovery: Simple Ideas to Transform Chaos to Sanity, has a knack for asking questions that make her clients reach deep within to achieve their goals and dreams.
Her professional and life experiences have given her a sense of wisdom and understanding that make her the ideal coach for family members of addicts, adults and teens in recovery, people in transition, people looking to explore their life purpose, and teens or adults striving to be leaders of their own lives. With 26 years of family recovery under her belt, Bev developed the Four Foundations© as a tool for individuals who wish to make a difference in their own lives as well as in the lives of their families. A former school principal, Bev also coaches parents, teachers, and school leaders looking to increase their effectiveness and reduce their stress.
Coach Bev earned her MA at the University of Pittsburgh and her empowerment coaching certification (CEC) through the Institute for Professional Empowerment Coaching (iPEC).
Beverly’s Coaching Suggestion
As you begin to work with the four foundations (self care, being a loving person, setting boundaries, getting support), you will find parts that are easy and natural for you and parts that are harder. Rather than struggle and worry about the parts that are more difficult, look for your small and large successes in any of the four areas and celebrate them! Keep a daily journal in which you write down every success you have in putting your new habits into place. These could be anything from flossing your teeth more regularly to allowing your child to tie his own shoes instead of jumping in quickly to help to giving your teen firm, yet loving boundaries within which to operate, even when he or she pushes back. Think of the four foundations as muscles that will grow stronger with practice and everyday look for opportunities to try a new one and watch its effects take root in your life.
Beverly’s Quote for the Day
“It is only with the heart that one sees rightly. That which is essential is invisible to the eye. “~Antoine Saint Exupery
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“It is only with the heart that one sees rightly. That which is essential is invisible to the eye. “
Antoine Saint Exupery
One Heart, One Mind (Elisabeth von Trapp)
August 18, 2010 by Jory · 2 Comments
Elisabeth von Trapp joins us on Heart & Soul to discuss the meaning behind her music as well as her inspiration for writing, composing, and arranging several of her songs. We will come away with a clear understanding of why audiences of all ages are awed by the beauty of her voice and the astonishing sound of her music. We will appreciate Elisabeth the person as well as Elisabeth the performer, and we’ll understand why no one leaves an Elisabeth von Trapp performance unchanged.
About Elisabeth von Trapp
Elisabeth von Trapp built upon her famed family’s passion for music to create her own artistic style—ethereal yet earthy, delicate yet powerful. Singing professionally since childhood, she has enthralled audiences throughout the United States, Austria, and Russia performing as wondrously in European cathedrals as in Washington D.C.’s Kennedy Center.
Elisabeth’s cathedral program includes sacred and secular music extending from Gregorian chants and songs of 12th century mystics to early American hymns, spirituals, and Psalms set to her own compositions.
Her concert repertoire ranges from Bach to Broadway — from Schubert to Sting. Elisabeth’s five self-produced albums have been featured on National Public Radio, BBC-Radio, Japanese National Radio, and CNN Spanish Radio; she has appeared on CBS’ Eye on People, ABC’s Good Morning America, and BBC-TV. Critics have called her voice “hauntingly clear,” “joyfully expressive,” and “simply beautiful.”
Find out more about Elisabeth and her music at www.elisabethvontrapp.com.
Elisabeth’s Quotes for the Day
“Gesang is Dasein…… To Sing is to be…” ~Reiner Maria Rilke
“Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that all was vanity; but the dreamers of the day are dangerous….. for they may act on their dream…. and make it possible.” ~T.E. Lawrence from Seven Pillars of Wisdom
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Finding Purpose & Passion in Entrepreneurship (Anthony Centore)
With the domestic unemployment rate hovering around 10 percent, the concept of “job security” is an idea of the past. While these are difficult financial times for many individuals, for some it’s a blessing in disguise. There has never been a better time to strike out and start a business of your own. Dr. Anthony Centore is a consultant and coach for burgeoning entrepreneurs at his practice Thrive Boston Counseling and Life Coaching. In this presentation he shares honest, effective, and innovative strategies for getting your new business off the ground using real world examples from his own experiences as a small business entrepreneur.
The business building techniques Anthony speaks on include:
- Find Your UVP
- Start on the Cheap
- Constant Forward Motion
- Think SERVICE
- Work on the Business, not in the Business
- Become a Thought Leader
- Rally Your Fans
- Surprise and Delight
- And more…
About Anthony Centore
Anthony Centore, PhD is the Founder of Thrive Boston Counseling in Cambridge, MA (www.thriveboston.com). As a Therapist and Life Coach, Dr. Centore helps couples in crisis as well as clients struggling with life issues including depression, anxiety, anger, self-image, and others.
Dr. Centore has published research in the Journal of Mental Health Counseling and has published writings on a wide variety of subjects. He recently authored a textbook entitled The Therapist’s Clinical Guide to Online Counseling and Telephone Counseling: The Definitive Training Guide for Clinical Practice.
Dr. Centore has been quoted in numerous publications including the Boston Business Journal and The Boston Globe. He has also been interviewed on ABC News Boston.
Anthony’s Coaching Suggestion
Anthony advises us that we must LOVE WHAT WE DO. On the dark days, he says, it will be our passion and love for our business that will keep us moving forward. He also suggests that we LEARN AS WE GO. “I want to stress the word LEARN. Become a sponge. Start spending time with successful business people and learn how they did it. Make lots of small mistakes and learn from there. Read lots of books on small business, branding and marketing, and customer service. Get to the point where you go on Amazon. com and are frustrated because you’ve already read every four and five star book in their business section.” Anthony emphasizes the word GO. We must execute and test our business idea, he says, as soon as possible and not just continually plan.
Anthony’s Quotes for the Day
“The unexamined life is not worth living.” ~Socrates
“Starting a business is about Constant Forward Motion.” ~Fredrick Marckini, Founder of iProspect
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Even the Lone Ranger had Tonto! (Kate Steinbacher)
Going it alone is old fashioned and self centered and, frankly, makes life difficult! Kate believes in working smarter NOT harder and has discovered that collaboration is the way of doing it. Do you want to learn to work less and accomplish more? Join us for this fun and engaging conversation and go away with tools for your success!
About Kate Steinbacher
Kate Steinbacher, PCC: is a consummate entrepreneur, collaborator, and agent for fun and change as well as a coach, speaker, and prolific writer of self-development articles. She’s enjoyed being a corporate HR manager for a fortune 100 company as well as a Cruise Director on board luxury cruise ships. A business team manager and speaker/emcee for American and International groups, Kate has also served as an active Business and Personal Coach since 2001.
“Coach Kate” has owned, operated, and marketed four successful small businesses. Currently she is a principal in The Coaching Advantage and Co-Founder of The Coaches Console along with her business partner Melinda Cohan.
Change and action have always been allies for Kate’s success. Not only is she passionate about people and business and fostering positivism and possibility, but also about fostering individual and corporate greatness through the use of professional coaching skills. Part of Kate’s driving force is her passion to get the world coached and her sense of fun.
Kate’s Coaching Suggestion
1) Kate suggests that we examine our lives to discern where we are going it alone—and why. Do we have to go it alone or can we delegate the job in ways that allow others to shine and that allow us to learn new ways of accomplishing the task?
2) She also suggests that we review our connections and contacts to discover who might be our “Tontos” in the work place and/or at home. We should then evaluate their strengths and discuss with them how we can collaborate to accomplish more with less effort.
Kate’s Quote for the Day
“Life is to be lived. If you have to support yourself, you had bloody well better find some way that is going to be interesting.” ~Katherine Hepburn
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Change Your Thinking. Change Your Life. (Kim Avery)
You can be different! The process, God’s process, is both undeniably
successful and intensely practical. Scripture says, “As a man thinks
within himself, so is he.” In other words, when you change your thinking,
you WILL change your life.
Kim presents a memorable method that will help you identify and replace sabotaging patterns of thought, learn God’s method of true change, and experience lasting transformation in how you think, how you feel, and what you do.
- Recognize and replace the lies that lead to low self-esteem
- Accept and embrace God’s unconditional love
- Replace anxiety with peace
- Fight discouragement
- Battle false guilt
- Discover patience
- Create an unhurried life
- Stop living for the approval of others
- Discover the secret to persevering when times are tough
- Change your thinking and you WILL change your life
About Kim Avery
Kim Avery is a passionate lover of life, but she will be the first to admit that life is not always good. From marital struggles to infertility, car accidents, hospitalizations, chronic health problems, parenting teenagers and more, her life hasn’t always been easy. Yet, she always knew that God’s promise of an abundant life must be true and she determined to relentlessly pursue it until His joy became her own.
Zealously, she now wants this for every Christian woman everywhere and helps others in their journey to joy in a variety of ways. She is the founder of LifeRenewal Ministries, a certified career and life coach, coaching instructor, speaker, and devoted lover of chocolate.
Kim has recently authored two books designed to more fully empower Christian women to experience God’s unquenchable joy: Uniquely You: Discover Your Life Purpose and Change Your Thinking. Change Your Life.
Kim’s Coaching Suggestion
Kim offers us three steps to help us change our thinking.
1) Recognize. First, we should identify a false belief or negative thought we want to change.
2) Renew. Next we should write out God’s truth or principle on a 3X5 card.
3) Rehearse. Finally, we should read and pray this truth at least three times a day and be prepared to witness amazing results.
Kim’s Quote for the Day
“Our chief want is someone who will inspire us to be what we know we could be.” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson
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Transform Your Life by Transforming Your Beliefs (Lion Goodman)
We’ve all heard the saying, “Our beliefs create our reality,” but what does this really mean? Lion Goodman spent 35 years researching this question and proved it to be true. Then he developed a new methodology for actually changing beliefs, quickly and permanently. This has an immediate, profound impact on our life as we know it–and on our life as we live it.
The BeliefCloset Process™ is an easy-to-master guided process that enables you to examine the beliefs you inherited or took on in the past, test them for viability today, and discard the ones that don’t work anymore and replace them with beliefs that will serve you better. Our old limiting beliefs are like outfits you once wore, but have outgrown. It’s time for a makeover!
Lion teaches this potent methodology to coaches and therapists worldwide. Reports of profound changes in the psyches and lives of clients continue to pour in.
About Lion Goodman
Lion is a workshop leader, author, coach, and businessman. He has 30 years of business experience and 35 years of study, practice, and research in psychology, philosophy, personal development, and spiritual evolution. As an executive search consultant and career coach, he worked with more than 250 companies across the U.S.
He teaches The BeliefCloset Process™ to coaches, therapists, and facilitators of transformation worldwide. He is the founder of the Sacred Centers’ Coach Training program, a whole-person coaching methodology based on the chakra system.
Lion is the author of Menlightenment, a book for awakening men, and is a co-author of the book, The Heart of Healing, along with Deepak Chopra and others. His fiction and non-fiction articles have been published internationally.
More information is available on his websites: BeliefCloset.com and EverydayAwakening.com.
Lion’s Coaching Suggestion
Lion suggests that you begin examining the hidden and transparent beliefs that are running your life.
Ask yourself, “What do I believe about ____________? “ Spend a few minutes writing down your beliefs about each of the following topics:
- Myself
- My body
- My health
- My work
- My sexuality
- My abilities
- My limitations
- My attitudes
- My family
- My relationships
- My soul, spirit or spiritual self
- Money & Finances
- God/Spirit/Source
- The world
- Good & Evil
- Life & Death
- Truth
- The past
- The future
- My beliefs
2. Circle the beliefs that you believe may be behind the difficulties in your life.
3. For the circled beliefs, ask yourself the following questions:
- Has this belief been beneficial or detrimental to me in my life?
- Was this belief indoctrinated into me? If so, by whom? Did I ever consciously choose to believe it? If so, when? Why did I do so?
- What has been the advantage of having this belief? How has it served me in my life? What did I get or gain by having this belief? What did I avoid by having this belief?
- Who would I be without this belief?
- What would I prefer to believe instead?
4. Download the free BeliefCloset Jump-Start Kit by signing up on www.BeliefCloset.com/jsk1. Listen to the BeliefCloset Audio Guide, which will take you through the BeliefCloset Process so you can eliminate and replace three of your limiting or negative beliefs that you don’t want anymore.
Lion’s Quote for the Day
“We are as gods. So we might as well get good at it.” ~Stewart Brand, founder of the Whole Earth Catalog
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The New Sexy: How to Get It & Keep It (Alice Greene)
Everyone wants to feel good about their body and themselves. As Alice will explain, the struggle with being in shape isn’t from a lack of diet and fitness experts, programs or reality shows. In fact, they are often a big part of the problem! They create diet and exercise rules only a minority can live with. Worse, they focus on what you should do, not how to solve the underlying subconscious beliefs and emotions that are at the heart of why people struggle to live a healthy active lifestyle.
The keys to success are by breaking the rules, doing what feels good, building confidence, and addressing hidden baggage that drive behaviors.
Alice will share the HOW TO secrets in creating a healthy and fit lifestyle and a New Sexy body–secrets that will help you achieve and maintain long-term results.
About Alice Greene
Alice is America’s Healthy Lifestyle Coach and author of Inspired to Feel Good: Making Healthy and Fit Choices So Rewarding and Liberating You Never Want to Stop. She knows what it really takes to become a health, fitness, and weight loss success story. She is a nine-year success, and she teaches her clients the secrets to easily and naturally adding healthy choices, fitness, and self care into their lives for long-term results and feeling their best.
Alice is an expert in motivation, healthy dieting, enjoyable fitness, and overcoming self-sabotage. Her coaching programs give people the tools and knowledge to create healthy choices that are realistic and feel really good to maintain. As a result, her clients finally achieve success in having a healthy relationship with food, long-term fitness, self-care, and a healthy weight that lasts.
You can learn more about Alice at www.aHealthyLifestyleWorks.com.
Alice’s Coaching Suggestion
As we eat our meals during the upcoming week, Alice suggests that we pay attention to one thing: at what point do we start to become full? She says in her interview with Beth and me that we don’t have choices unless we’re conscious about what we’re thinking or doing. Noticing when we’re transitioning from satisfied to full, and noticing what we’re thinking and feeling as that occurs, will help us have choices about our lifestyle.
Alice’s Quote for the Day
“The secret to successfully getting a body that feels great is not about being good but doing what feels good.”
~Alice Greene
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You First! – Steps to Feeling Fulfilled and Excited About Life (Nat Couropmitree)
July 6, 2010 by Jory · 2 Comments
At a very young age, Nat Couropmitree, life coach and founder of ProsperityLighthouse.com, remembers asking himself, “Why am I here? What’s my purpose?” Growing up, he kept on asking himself these questions and often found no real value in his existence or any lasting happiness. Nat thought something was wrong with him, and he strove to fix it. He participated in many personal growth programs; he jumped from job to job, career to career, one business opportunity to the next. Each new experience brought excitement, inspiration, and success, but none of it was lasting. None of it was enough until Nat changed the way he approached his life. It was through his struggles and frustrations that Nat discovered a new way of living that inspires him every day. He joins us to share new perspectives and steps you can take to feel fulfilled and to enjoy a life with purpose.
About Nat Couropmitree
Nat Couropmitree supports clients internationally as a life coach and as the host of the popular weekly radio show, Law of Attraction Success Radio. He supports his clients to see the root cause of their frustrations, challenges, and struggles and then effectively empowers them to shift away from those patterns. He supports his clients to reinforce and expand their new and improved reality by helping them develop new self-nurturing habits. Nat is very skilled at taking the insurmountable and transforming it into the doable through the use of simple action steps. He loves helping his clients to see that they already have within them all the tools they need to make the profound life changes they desire.
To learn more about Nat and to listen to his radio show, visit ProsperityLighthouse.com
Nat’s Coaching Suggestion
Nat has found that being passionate and purposeful requires us to know what we personally want in life—to know what makes us happy and brings us joy. To become clear about what we truly want, he suggests the following:
- Create two columns on a piece of paper.
- In the first column, write down everything you don’t like and don’t want.
- In the second column, write down everything you do like and do want (which is often the opposite of whatever you wrote in column one).
- Make room for what you want in your life now by actually scheduling it into your day and week. This will help change old patterns that may be keeping you from a life full of purpose and joy.
Nat’s Quote for the Day
“Don’t ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and then go do it! Because what the world needs are people who have come alive.” ~Dr. Howard Thurman
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Find Your Buried Treasure – Enrich Yourself and the World (Betty Liedtke)
Although she’s had an active and fulfilling life, Betty Liedtke found herself questioning her worth and value in the marketplace when, in her mid-50s, she tried–and failed–to identify her own special and unique qualities.
She became doubly frustrated as she attempted to make the transition from popular Toastmasters speaker to paid professional speaker, and from weekly newspaper columnist to author of a full-length motivational memoir. Her two-year quest to find her own special gifts and unique qualifications led to the discovery that what is most special and unique about each of are gifts and talents we don’t even realize we have. They feel so common and ordinary to us that we don’t recognize their existence or value.
Betty now helps other people find their buried treasure and use their gifts to enrich themselves and the world.
About Betty Liedtke
Shortly after her second child was born, Betty Liedtke developed breast cancer, followed by severe heart damage from chemotherapy. These experiences taught her firsthand the importance of attitude, determination, and a sense of humor in dealing with anything life throws at us.
Betty is a writer, professional speaker, and Certified Dream Coach®. She is a Distinguished Toastmaster, a member of eWomenNetwork, and a graduate of the prestigious Loft MasterTrack program from the Loft Literary Center in Minneapolis.
She is also the founder and CEO of “Find Your Buried Treasure,” a company whose mission is to help people discover their strength, stretch beyond their ability, and achieve their greatest dreams. One of her strongest convictions is that nothing is impossible if we want it badly enough and are willing to do the work to achieve it.
Coaching Suggestion
Betty suggests using the following steps as a Treasure Map to Find Your Buried Treasure:
1. Look at everything you do in your life, and ask yourself these questions about each of them.
- Do I love it?
- Am I good at it?
- Is it rewarding in some way (financially or otherwise)?
2. Identify anything you can do to help you answer “Yes!” to all three questions—and do it.
3. Pay attention to the things people compliment you on, seek your advice about, or admire and appreciate about you—these are great clues.
4. Ask yourself: “What would I dare to try if I knew I couldn’t fail?”
- Now imagine what steps you’d have to take and what work you’d have to do in order to make that happen.
- Take the first step.
Betty’s Quote for the Day
“How often in life we complete a task that was beyond the capability of the person we were when we started it.” ~Robert Brault
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The Sky is Green and The Grass is Blue – Turning Your Upside Down World Right Side Up! (Deb Scott)
Deb talks about what she does best–helping others transform “bad” into great and being happy in the process. Anything bad, she says, can be transformed into a diamond you love. During this program, you will obtain tangible tools and resources to help you accomplish this personal transformation.
About Deb Scott
Deb Scott is a motivation and lifestyle consultant, specializing in working with business and corporate environments to transform poor interpersonal dynamics and low-energy groups into high-powered, successful, dynamic teams. A biology major in college, Deb became an award-winning sales and leadership specialist with 20 years of background in cardiac surgery sales. Now she applies her sales and business background to motivational speaking and consulting in the fields of sales, marketing, advertising, hiring, and team building. “The Sky Is Green and The Grass is Blue – Turning Your Upside-Down World Right-Side-Up!” is her first book.
Deb has battled and dealt with depression, other people’s alcoholism, a dysfunctional family, sexual abuse, and religious doubts. Yet she has emerged as a happy, successful executive who trains others to follow a proven path to happiness. Now she teaches the same life-changing techniques that enabled her to overcome her challenges.
Coaching Suggestion
To “sabotage ourselves for great success,” Deb suggests that we write down three goals or affirmations on sticky notes and place one note on our bathroom mirror, one in a pair of shoes we don’t wear very often, and one in our car or near the coffeepot. These little “mind vitamins,” as she calls them, will help our lives come to life in a big way.
Deb’s Quote for the Day
“Be yourself. Everybody else is already taken.” Oscar Wilde
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